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CF, The Instinct System, The Mating Instinct

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Section 31.01 Mating Instinct

(a) The instinct to mate is one of the fundamental motivations behind virtually all other instincts and other Primal Behaviors. It is a very powerful motivator.

(b) The only instinct that matches the motivational power of the Mating Instinct is the Survival Instinct when one is in danger.

(c) One of the only emotions that is close to the motivational power of the Mating Instinct is Fear, Fear of Loss, Fear of Failure, Fear of Humiliation. And many of these fears relate back to one’s potential to mate. For example a person who thinks they are a failure is far less likely to mate, or far less likely to find the most attractive mate.

(d) When you are motivated to act and the motivation is most powerful it will likely be due to one of these three motivators; the Mating Instinct, the Survival Instinct, or a Fear. There are other powerful motivators to be sure. But these are most capable of determining your course of action. Keep this in mind.

Section 31.02 Mating Tips For Males

(a) Barely acknowledging the existence of the potential mate in the room heightens their intrigue in you.

(b) Appear slightly dangerous because you are dangerous.

(c) Project yourself as the power in the room, the person all want to go to. You are the alpha and the omega. This is not egoism. Humans 2.0 learn to project their power into their immediate environment. Practice this now and learn the basics of what works and what does not. Later you will learn the best way.

When done properly the women will be drawn to you as if you were John Travolta with wings, smellin’ like cookies, and dancing to their favorite song. The other males will challenge you. As you become more powerful, becoming a Human 2.0, they will pose absolutely no threat.

I walked into the room as the alpha being only 19 year old one time. I attracted the females no problem. But I also attracted three males who didn’t appreciate it. Let’s say I wasn’t fully prepared to practice that maneuver. I had a physical altercation. But this occurs at teenager parties. At adult parties this is far less likely. I didn’t lose the fight and I didn’t win it either. Nor did I gain a female. So I only broke even. All I could do was chalk that one up to experience and move on.

When I say walk into a room with power I do not mean strut in like some p_mp. You walk in with your eyes confidently scanning all the other eyes in the room in a sweeping motion. Your body language must say you control this environment, it’s yours. Don’t smile. Don’t drop your eyes if you connect with a larger dominant male or a beautiful woman… Understand? You have been alive for 3,000 years and these mortal children can in no way harm you emotionally or otherwise. That kind of confidence, security, relaxed, but dominant attitude.

(d) If alone in the room of people appear perfectly comfortable with the temporary solitude. Watch males 1.0 and amuse yourself as they make truly horrible mistakes.

(e) Talk very little. When you do talk be very polite and interject a deep and meaningful comment. Do not try to appear smart. Simply be thoughtful. Talk too much and you may reveal your limitations. This is counterproductive to your primary goal. Once you have dated her several times you will undoubtedly reveal your true self.

(f) Is it wrong to be or to pretend you are someone you are not? Look at it this way. When a male tries to attract a new mate they are so full of anxiety, self doubt, and so on that they are not their true self anyway. Get your foot in the door and past the crucial first impression. This superficial first step is no more honest as you pretending to be someone you are not, or her pretending to have a prettier face than she really does have under all that makeup, or bigger boobs than she really has, or a slimmer waste, or taller without the high heals… If you are jerk then she’ll figure it out soon enough. If you are acceptable to the female after several encounters then you must be doing something right. You must be okay at least in her eyes.

(g) Never talk poorly of any person. Many females 1.0 do this frequently but at the same time they respect those men who do not.

(h) Do not show a negative attitude. Be positive. Humans 2.0 truly think and behave in a positive manner as this is healthier for themselves and their immediate environment. When the environment is positively charged it sends back a positive reactionary wave. This is not metaphysics talking but quantum physics. To be explained later.

(i) Project energy, but not nervous energy. Most Humans 1.0 are dull eyed cattle, asleep at the wheel, no zest, just drudgery. A Human 2.0 projects energy and vitality honestly. They are mentally and physically healthier. They assess and are fully engaged within their surrounding environment. They are extremely observant, so much so that they observe themselves observing themselves. This grasp of the present and the 4 dimensions translates into a very awake and alive individual. You will likely not understand how this would feel, yet.

In the mean time to project energy do this. Communicate energetically, with enthusiasm through your eyes. Make your eyes speak to her. Verbal speech accounts for very little of the communication process. When you communicate energetically through your eyes she becomes captivated by them. She is not listening as much as she is absorbing your energy, feeling light, feeling a little excited. It works. Practice on anyone and everyone. You will get it. When you master this your confidence will increase greatly. That confidence will then add to your ability.

(j) Occasionally glance at the female you are interested in but only when you know she is looking at you, sizing you up. Do it once, maybe twice, but no more. Smile, nod slightly/slowly once in recognition, and put your eyes back upon that which you were looking at before, unless it was another woman.

(k) Dress nice and smell good. Look your best. In this superficial world it is rare that you will get a second chance at a first impression.

Humans 2.0 extend first impressions for a much longer period of time than Humans 1.0. A female 1.0 may not spend more than 30 seconds to a minute and a half total time sizing you up.

(l) Think and speak in the present. Don’t drag the past or future into your thoughts or discussions. That is unless you are at a Historians conference…

Humans 2.0 live the majority of their life in the present. This is the best time to create experiences and memories worth having, worth remembering. You remember being a kid and how fun that was with your friends. That is because children, more than adults, live in the present. She will feel younger and happier as will you.

(m) Don’t talk about yourself. She wants a mystery man. Don’t lie, just give her single blurb that is intriguing but not too revealing. A male 2.0 keeps his ego in check. Then talk about what she does, what she likes. A male 2.0 would be sincerely interested.

(n) A male should masturb___ (this is a student safe web site) before entering into a social environment with prospective mates, not during. This insures that you are in more control of your actions and reactions. A clear head, using the right head to think, not appearing needy, maintaining control over the initial steps in the mating ritual are all important to attracting the best females.

(o) The act of attracting a mate within a Civilization 1.0 filled with Humans 1.0 is a predatory act. Being that you are on your way to becoming a Human 2.0 does not change this fact today. Plan accordingly. You are a predator, a somewhat dangerous predator (for attraction purposes only). Don’t kill and eat another male. That would be too ambitious. You are confident but not obnoxious.

(p) Most Human 1.0 females think in terms of fairytales. When they size you up they are attempting to visualize you within these fairytales. Common fairytales include but are not limited to a huge fancy wedding in a cathedral, a castle with stables on the grounds, a romantic interlude where you might sweep her off her feet, a moment where you defend her or her honor… Play into her fantasy if you share it. If you do not share it then show her the respect and courtesy she deserves. She may respect that.

(q) If your potential mate is a Human 2.0 then fairytales and fantasies play no part as a motivation in the mating process. They may play a part for fun but not as something they think is real. Human 2.0 women are not delusional. Be perfectly honest and up front with them or you will have virtually no chance. A Human 2.0 woman may find a 1.0 male delightfully primitive but the relationship will not last.

(r) Any male would prefer a 2.0 female because they give in the relationship, and gain pleasure from giving. They are not selfish, self centered or otherwise wrapped up in what can be done for them. They have no concern for what materialistic benefits they might gain. They have considerably more benefits than can be listed here. This type of woman is almost nonexistent in the 1.0 environment.

Note: If this discussion on the Mating Instinct and the other Destructive Primal Behaviors and Cortex Values/Behaviors seems insufficient that’s because it is. The Causality Formula reconfigures the systems of civilization. This means that when we begin discussing the individual systems each of the Destructive Primal Behaviors and their alternatives will be discussed as they pertain specifically to each system.  The information here is preliminary.

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